F … is for feedback

F[1]  is for feedback.

When I use the word feedback, I don’t mean a spontaneous comment. Look at the construction of the word; it is a response.

A review is a good example of feedback, and I have my own set of rules when writing a review. Yes, I know there will now be some of you that will not be surprised by that admission.

I believe that in life, if you don’t have something constructive to say, then don’t say anything. When still in the retail management role I held by the maxim: ‘Praise in public, reprimand in private’. A combination of those two trains of thought takes us some way to understanding my attitude to writing, or not writing reviews

1.  Even if I don’t like  book or story, I make a point of not demeaning the author, or their efforts.

2.  If a piece of writing is particularly bad, whether it be a story or book, I do not write a public review.

3.  If I find; typos, incorrect syntax, or a glaring error, I make an effort to give the author a private ‘heads-up’ by email.

4.  When I write a public review, it normally takes the form of a ‘praise sandwich’. My intro will be a positive statement, followed by the body of the comment which may have some constructive criticism (if appropriate), followed by a summary which will be another positive statement, even if it’s only a couple of words of encouragement.

All of us that call ourselves writers enjoy what we do, otherwise we wouldn’t do it. Nothing damages confidence and self-esteem more than a completely negative review. If we write a mainly critical review, we should try to find something positive to say.

As writers, we shouldn’t be competing with each other; we should be supportive. I believe that those of us who have learned lessons should be prepared to help others. I came to writing seriously in my mid-50’s and I continue to take heed of other writers of all ages.

Let’s go forward by using feedback as a positive tool, to enhance our community and improve the relationships in our chosen profession, (or hobby in some cases). Together we can take the joy and success to new heights. This is a call to arms my literary friends.

Thank you for reading, and I’ll see some of you tomorrow for G, let me think …


7 thoughts on “F … is for feedback

  1. I love your approach to feedback. It’s good to be honest, and I love that you do it on a private one on one basis. My deal is if I can’t say anything good I don’t write a review period.


  2. i so agree with every word you’ve written here; I expressed some similar views in an addendum to one of my own book reviews. Having received a lot of valuable feedback from you in the past, I’ve always appreciated the balance you strike between praise where it’s due, frank and honest constructive criticism where it might be of most use, and those concerns you choose to express privately – I’d be a lot further in my own writing journey if every writer and blogger shared the same ethos as described in this post.


  3. W. K. Tucker

    Hi, Tom. Your blog was recommended to me by our fellow blogger, Julia Lund, here on WordPress. I look forward to exploring your space. 🙂


    1. Hi, and thank you for trusting Julia’s impeccable judgement. LOL. I’ve paid you a quick visit, but I’ll be back in my next blog patrol, tonight or tomorrow morning. Presently revising my followed/follows/Blogroll.


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