Any venture which involves a partnership requires ‘give and take’, and it was from this perspective that I chose to attempt one of my latest projects.
Regular visitors to this blog will be aware that I said, if my book, Coming Around and other erotic stories proved successful and received positive reviews, I’d consider writing an erotic novel.
Okay, so I haven’t made enough money from that title to retire to a little place in the country. Neither will I be swapping spit (or anything else) with a famous author who made a fortune from a badly-plotted erotic novel which appealed to so many people – but not to me.
How have I measured success for that particular experimental collection?
1. It has been bought on a regular basis since publication.
2. It has been read by both male and female readers.
3. It has amassed a staggering seven reviews … but they are all 5*.
4. It has caused no less than four individuals to write to me asking if I’d ever consider writing an erotic novel.
That’s successful enough to give me the excuse.
What is Give and Take about?
Essentially, it is about a relationship, and I’ve chosen to focus on the weakest part of that relationship, which is the couple’s sex-life.
How can you write anything meaningful about a couple’s sex-life?
Some of you will wish you hadn’t asked, but whatever, read on.
Let’s all now prepare ourselves to be honest – I mean really honest.
If you are involved in a sexual relationship, is it all it could be?
Would you ever divulge your deepest fantasies to somebody else?
Would you consider spending a few days in a remote clinic, where you and your partner could indulge yourselves in activities that you have only ever dreamt about?
Are you even a little bit ‘curious’ in the sexual context?
If you are still reading, having hesitated just a few questions back – respect!
Give and Take is the story of a young couple who have different attitudes to the sexual side of their relationship, but although both are sexually curious, they have difficulty communicating their fantasies and desires.
They find themselves at breaking point, and in order to save all that is good about their partnership, one of them feels compelled to take decisive action. The story sees them go to a private clinic where fantasy can become reality if the desire is strong enough, and honesty pays dividends both psychologically and sexually.
I’ve had feedback from four of the writers who received my ‘rough’ fourth draft. Today, I decided to take a break from what I’m hoping is my penultimate editing session. I tend not to set up a bespoke Facebook page and play a social media fanfare with a new title, but I do like to give an introduction like this one.
My aim is to have Give and Take published by end August / early September 2015.
Who knows? If this one is moderately successful I’ll try writing another, but let’s not get ahead of ourselves, eh?
In the next two weeks I may be happy with what I would call the finished product, but before I hit the publish button I would really appreciate final feedback.
No erotica experience necessary, although some sexual experience would be preferred. Only 18+ need apply.
Contact: firstname.lastname@example.org – subject: Give and Take
If you would be interested in reading the manuscript with a view to giving feedback before I publish, please get in touch. Confidentiality is promised, because I know that not everybody likes to be publicly associated with such literature.
As always, thank you for reading … and now you can go back to your own fantasies …